As part of the move across the world in "The Great Canadian
Adventure", I had to quit the job I'd been in for 2 and a half years. It
was terrifying, but also somewhat exhilarating, like cliff diving or bungee
jumping. ...Until I remembered that now I had to start job hunting again; yay,
my favourite pastime!
Anyone who's had to search for a job while not in work knows that
it can take a while to hear anything back from a prospective employer, and the
vast majority of answers are going to be "No". This gets
disheartening very quickly, let me tell you.
So how do you keep your spirits up enough to keep going, but not feel guilty about time away from your search? Below there's a few things I'm taking up, maybe they'll help
you out as well:
1. Be Prepared to Wow your Future Employer
Nowadays most people looking to fill a job role seem to be looking for a custom fit; like you were made for that role. This doesn't mean writing up a good CV and getting endorsements on LinkedIn - it means tailoring your CV and killer cover letter for every role, matching their job specification as much as possible, and delivering an interview which really impresses. It's an employer's market at the moment by anyone's standards, so make sure that you know your resume, skills and their company inside out, and that you can really stand out from the crowd.
I've started to compile a database of my former positions, each
job's duties and responsibilities, my strengths and weaknesses, and how to go
about answering common interview questions. I can use this to tailor my CV and
cover letter to whatever an employer needs from me. Have a look at the STAR
technique for competency based interviews and application forms - it's a really
great way of helping you get to the root of how good your skills are and how
you've demonstrated that!
2. Give Back to your Community
You know that non-profit you always wanted to get involved with,
or that community clean-up group looking for help? Sign up! Not only can
volunteering be a great talking point in a interview and helpful for explaining
job hunting gaps in your CV, but it’s also a great mental break from the
process of getting torn down with every polite refusal.
That feeling of giving back and making a difference in someone
else’s life is great for keeping you focused on the good things in your life,
and it’ll also get you out of the house for a while. For me, it’s also
something I'm going to try as a way to meet new people and build up a contact
base in a new country.
3. Learn Something New
While I was in my notice period for my last job, I took the
opportunity to take an online “Train the Trainer” course. It tied in with my
career goals (I’d love to move towards HR or Learning & Development), gave
me another qualification to add to my CV, and helped distract me from the whole
scary process of leaving Ireland again. In the fall/autumn, I’m hoping to take
up
another part time course in Human Resources Management – again, working towards the career goals while allowing me to use the skills I already have to provide for myself. Even if it’s taking that evening art class you’ve always wanted, that feeling of productivity can really support your mental health.
another part time course in Human Resources Management – again, working towards the career goals while allowing me to use the skills I already have to provide for myself. Even if it’s taking that evening art class you’ve always wanted, that feeling of productivity can really support your mental health.
Getting back into education can be helpful for many of the same
reasons as getting involved with a community group: it’s a talking point for
interviews and employment gaps, a great way to show that you’re interested in
progression, and it helps to take the pressure off the job hunt in your head by
making you focus on something different.
A word of warning with this one, however. Make sure you keep your
time management under control, or you’ll end up spending so much time on the
learning that the job hunt gets pushed to the side, and you end up no closer
than you started!
4. Get Healthy
I've been really trying to get healthy and get fit this past year,
and sometimes it hasn't gone remarkably well! The thing I've discovered about
my little area of Canada is that while fast and convenient food is incredibly
difficult to avoid, there’s also a huge availability of fresh produce (and the
high price of meat makes it a great incentive to go vegetarian a few times each
week!), which you can cram into your diet for a nutritional boost fairly
easily. Being in a city also means that there’s plenty of incentive to walk
everywhere and lots of opportunities to take a fitness class (if you can get a
monthly membership it works out cheaper and helps you keep focused).
Focusing on starting a healthy lifestyle while you’re job hunting
can be a fantastic side project, because not only do you have a little more
time (something people cite as one of the most popular reasons for not being
able to commit to an exercise regime) but the creation of all those feel good
hormones and generally helping the body feel better has been found to be
brilliant for mental health.
Even just getting outside in the fresh air can help get you away from a computer screen or the last phone interview.
…Just try to schedule any cutting out of alcohol, cigarettes or
caffeine for a time you’re likely to be able to take a few days off and avoid
stressful interviews or rejections. Trust me, even detoxing the light stuff
isn't pretty.
5. Know your Goals
The whole point of this blog is figuring out how to get to where I
want to be in twenty, thirty, fifty years’ time (and what it is that I actually
want). So what better time to focus on figuring out what makes you happy and
what you want than when you’re already evaluating your entire self for
employment purposes?
What do I want out of a career? What’s on my bucket list and how
do I start to fulfil it? What would my ideal 50th birthday look
like? A great way to start to discover what you want out of life is to pick a
point in your future and describe your perfect day – are you running your own
business or running a marathon, are your kids grown up or have you escaped
having them completely? No caveats or maybes; we all know that life throws
curveballs but this is giving you an ideal to aim for. Take that person that
you want to become and figure out how to get there.
My perfect day, by the way? St. Patrick’s Day in ten years, with a
young family and a career I love, being fit and healthy and absolutely content
with where life has taken me, celebrating my heritage and the people and
culture I am so proud of. Now to figure out how to get there.
What do you do to keep your mind healthy and stop getting
distressed while you’re on the lookout for work?
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